Hi
I noticed that no one has replied to your question.
I’ll start by saying that I have a different printer from yours, But I’ve seen some things happen.
The 1st thing you would need to resolve is finding out why things are falling apart.
Then
By the warping shown in your last photo, you are really not attempting to print on an unheated bed with ABS material, are you?
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Sometimes, if models are not solid, you get very strange results.
However, if you got your models directly from XYZ, I would think they are solid and should print.
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So
Info that would be needed for others to chime in are
What slicing software are you using?
What material are you attempting to print with?
What are your temperature settings for extruder and bed, if your bed is heated?
How fast are you attempting to print at?
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With that said,
I’ve had birdnest troubles if my filament diameter is out of spec.
I’ve had Warping troubles and bed adhesion troubles if my bed temperature is not correct or
if I’m running ABS with the cooling fan turned on.
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It sounds like you are trying to do things correctly.
Sometimes the learning curve for 3D printing is quite steep.
Please don’t give up
It might be that you have a bad machine, but more than likely there are a few things that you just don’t understand yet.
When you are able to start printing good parts and you see your son smiling, it will all be worth it.
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I hope my ramblings have helped you in some manner